What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence, without a basic form and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. Obviously, always with respect for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The result is frequently a wonderful physical, psychological well-being. Usually, the receiver is really unwinded, splendidly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually enjoy that touches. The recipient is also present, and receives active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Full of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are entirely present. Do not believe about yesterday or tomorrow. Do not browse or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or getting the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Receive also really purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are in fact out of the concern. Everything occurs in the moment, completely awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not meant (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be different. It is not the technique or the desired sequence of rubbing that is crucial, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is required.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take a really surprising course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limitations
We understood it for a very long time, naturally, however since the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver constantly must be ensured. Caring attunement constantly comes.
Set clear boundaries beforehand
Everyone (other than when you are informed) has his limits. This is human and is also required (read the article on guarding limits. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is a correct intake, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries in advance: about psychological boundaries, and likewise make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is also totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is also a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. In addition, actually each cell is sensuous, but you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Triggering and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, constantly with respect for (shared) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important role again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural happy state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Typically leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra assists you to become more relaxed, more dynamic, more energetic, more caring and so far more. In fact, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is precisely what occurs frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is totally enabled! A tantra massage is generally good, in some cases delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully enjoy receiving ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in common. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (aimed at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Well because you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is a profession apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the short article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand apart:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer good conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, preferable. A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", stay away from your own issues and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Nothing has to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, don't aim to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are disappointed when someone falls asleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the Tantric massage West London massage.
10 crucial tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard boundaries, set clear borders in advance. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, of course. Nevertheless, know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer integration minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it is like to like yourself.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined result.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a wonderful physical, mental well-being (of both).